*✯☆ You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.~Maya Angelou ☆✯*

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Complication


“I know sometimes you feel you're battling an army just to love me more
Trust me baby imma do you better
Cause I can't lose the one thing that holds me together you’re my core
Someone I can call on forever”

Daydreaming about you here loving me
Showing me everything that we could ever be
I wanna show you and give you all of me cause you are my world
I know you are unsure but baby believe me actions do speak louder than words

Lately things have been a little crazy trust me it’ll get better
Let’s show the world that you and I were meant to be forever
Blessed to have you here in my life
Through thick and thin, break ups and makes ups we gone be all right

I want to show and prove to you, do my best to please you
You should know that I’m in love with you don’t want nobody else but you
The only thing that makes sense in my life
Things wouldn’t be perfect if I couldn’t be here as your wife

I wanna be there to pull you together when you feel like you about to fall apart
I’m making up for the loving that I never gave before
I would do whatever it takes to keep you here by my side
Me without you just wouldn’t be right.
It's amazing how my love just takes me away
keeps me sane when all the pain seems to wanna stay
walking to class singing that same old tone
with every word that is said it changes me mood
No matter how long i stay mad once i turn you on nothing else matter's 

Monday, October 1, 2012

MARRIAGE UNDER REPAIR Written by: Diane Patterson Onuntuei


I saw him pull her hair
And then punch her face.
Oh my God, what has gotten
Into this human race?

Oh man, don’t you know
That is not the way you should care
For the woman that you loved and married,
You know that is not fair.

The bible says you should cherish
And love your wife,
Just as you love yourself
But it appears that you yourself need help.

And my dear little sister,
Why do you provoke your man
And push him to the end
Where he can no longer stand?

You are supposed to submit
Yourself to your husband,
And reverence him through,
And be kind, and loving, and true.

We have to make some
Changes in this here life
So there can peace
Between husbands and wives!

What are the children going to say?
What are they going to do
When they find out that mommy and daddy’s
Relationship is through?

Then as they grow up and try to start anew,
What do you think they will do?
You can do better husband and wife
If you let God show you how to forgive and do it right.

I know that she may have hurt you
And I know that he may have been wrong
But God says what He has joined together,
Man should not pull apart
Therefore, you need to forgive
From deep within your heart
And then take a new stand
And look at each other again

And say: I truly love you dear,
I didn’t mean to hurt you,
But I was ravaged with anger and fear.
Come my darling; let us try again,

But this time we will do it with Him
I know that we can win.
Let us humble ourselves before God
And pray day and night.

We don’t have to have a broken marriage
But we can win this fight.
Dear God: we ask You to forgive us
For the foolish things we have done.

And now we want to try love again,
But this time with your Son.
Help us through the hard times
As we seek Your holy face;

And help us through the good times
To give You all of the praise for your grace.
This institution of marriage
May not be easy all of the time

But it is certainly not a time to continually whine.
God intended that man should not live alone
So don’t give up your good thing,
But cherish her in your home.

She is the weaker sex and
God made you the head.
Therefore you should stand strong
And let the family be led

In a godly way, teach them to stand and pray,
And be an example for the children.
Then you will look forward to fulfilled years
With minimized tears and you will give God all of the glory.

“. . . What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” (Matt.19:6).

(Diane’s website: www.godslove247.com