*✯☆ You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.~Maya Angelou ☆✯*

Thursday, May 30, 2013

A sistah's poem and a brotha's response

Do you qualify to be the man I need you to be?
Will you be able to recognize the thing  you need to see?
Will you be able to understand, that I'm a good woman and in my life u need a good man?
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to fertilize my unproductive seeds?
Can you fulfill, as I can, all of our needs?
Can you put me in my place if you see I am slipping?
Can you talk to me, wholeheartedly? Not constantly tripping!
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be called all mine?
Can you leave the other women and temptations behind?
Can you come to me with your problems and not wait until its too late?
Can you stand up and admit if you made a mistake? 
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be the honest ebony man I would want you to be?
Would you be able to look me in my eyes and admit your feelings to me?
Could you take me in your arms and make love to me all night long?
Can you be sensitive and still be strong?
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be my friend as well as my lover?
Can you put our love before any other?
Can you cherish me as if I were diamonds and Gold?
Can you make me feel like I'm the last woman you'll ever hold?
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be called a good man?
If I had doubts can you reassure me and understand?
Can your love intoxicate me as if I were high?
To be in my life, I need to know... Do you qualify?

- A brotha's response 
You ask, do I qualify?
Can I fulfill your needs and become the man you need me to be?
My sistah, are you prepared for what you've asked for?
Can you handle the responsibility?

Can you accept that, by God, I am the chosen one, the authority, the comforter, and the head?
Will you submit and willingly follow my path? 
Or will you fight with me instead?

If I am your king, will you treat me as such? 
Will I get the best of your beauty and poise?
Or will I be subjected to an appearance, neglected, and checked with some serious noise?
When I talk, will you listen?
I mean wholeheartedly and feel me?
Or will you rush me just to make your point too?
Can I be the man at all times?
Even when it hurts?
Or is it just when it's convenient for you?

Can you love me for me, and not who you wish I could be?
Will you see the strong black man within?
Or will you always remind me of all the past brothas behind me and make me pay for their sins?
If I don't send you flowers the day your co-worker received some, will you know that I love you still?
Or will me good name be uttered along with those other doggish brothas?
Will you question if my commitment is real?
Will you be patient and reach me to understand you, and all my knowledge of your needs to grow?
Or will you shut me out when I ask, baby what's wrong?
Or will you respond with,"Well a real man would know!"?

When we first met, what was it that caught your eye? 
Was it my mind, my heart, my personality? 
Or was it my suit, my job, or do you love what I drive, instead of what's driving me?

Yes I can, and I will, make love to you from midnight to the dawning of the sun.
But, if I tell you I'm tired, will you trust I'm sincere or believe that there must be another one?
My sistah, I love you and my hear can be yours. 
No woman could lead me astray.
But like you, I have needs, so I beg of you, please, in this love than meet me half way. 
In life's tough times, I'll hold you, in the rough times I'll mold you; your simplest wish will be my command.
My life is yours if need be.
Yes you can fully believe me, and when hell comes, in your place, I'll stand.
A good relationship is a powerful institution that must be built on a foundation of two. 
So to answer your question, 
Yes sistah, I do qualify.
Now, more importantly... Do you?

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

You Will Always Fear What You Don't Understand

To understand me; first, know my struggle. To love me; you then have to feel my pain.
To Be Continued....

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Cookie

I knew this day was coming but I didn't know it would be this soon. I'm sorry I couldn't be there but you and I both know that it was in my best interest. God knew it would be to much for the both of us. Im happy that God answered my prayers and that you're home because now you're at finally at peace.
You finally get to get up, move around, dance and I get to see that big beautiful smile of yours. I laugh because I wonder if God allows s-curls in heaven? If so, i know you're getting a touch up by now! lol It's been awhile but I know you wanna look nice! :-) I know you're up there getting your nails done, ohh and let's not forget that pinky ring! I can just picture you with your dark purple lip stick just cheesing!
I'm reminiscing about the good times and just thinking about all the fun we had! Though there were bad times as well it didn't matter. Because we always made a way out of no way and i will always love you for putting up with me.
You will always be my pooh pooh and I will never forget you. I hope as the years go by that you continue to watch over me and that I always make you proud. You are my heart, my soul and now my angel! I love you Beulah Mae Lofton aka Cookie!!
R.I.P
11/30/50 - 12/26/12